The first thing to do is find the right celebrant for you. “It’s important to do your research to find and meet the best person,” explains Vim Ziymabe at Forever Loved Celebrancy. “Because celebrants personalise the ceremony, you need to find someone you feel comfortable with sharing your journey with.”
You and your love story will be a big part of your ceremony, says Eleanor. “You are the content, so engagement with the process of creating the ceremony is part of the fun.”
Hanna emphasises the importance of making it tailored to you. “Definitely consider yourselves – it’s your day, it’s your relationship. Many people get side-tracked into pleasing everyone else, but it’s the one day to celebrate you, so keep that at the forefront of your planning.”
It’s important to remember the paperwork, too. If you want to be legally married, you’ll need to organise a civil ceremony before or after your celebrant-led one. “This costs about £60, takes ten minutes, needs two witnesses, and is the signing of your legal certificate. 90% of my couples do this the week before,” says Eleanor.